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Ok, I see myself as a very nice young lady with something going for herself. Single, no children, work Full-Time, and also in school. So why am I single? Why do men just want the "jump off" women and look past quality? Someone please tell me...... I'm sick of being single.... HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Thanks, i needed that. I am game for whatever. Are you going to the party in Oct? maybe we can meet there and get to know eachother. I need new girl friends.

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I am always there just come and say hi....lol

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Somebody set up a forum for discussion. I will present a thought provoking, exercised based workshop on the topic of "Why am I still Single?"....depending on the numbers interested and cost of materials and meeting place we can discuss cost, or if the response is substantial I can arrange everything and establish a price. those interested respond to culturedblkman@yahoo.com

Richard

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AllyC, I am thrilled to see that you ladies are having a great time meeting up. Now, why didn't y'all start that when I lived in the Metro ATL? I am so jealous!! rotflll lol lol

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GIRL! I AM FEELING YOU ON THIS ONE. I HAVE BEEN ASKING MYSELF THE SAME QUESTION. WHEN YOU FIND OUT PLEASE LET ME KNOW.

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kelly unlike u I have two daughters 16, 18 have a degree in nursing and yet I too am single. I don't have the answer to ur question why but when u do find the answer please let me know.

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Hey ladies! @ KellyC girl Im going next weekend! I just dont know if Im gonna dress up! But n e ways I need new girlfirend that like to get out and have fun! So Im game! We can all talk and plan something soon! TTYS

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With all of that said! What are you looking for ? It starts with you. I a 45 years old a die hard romantic. I love poetry, live music, black plays and football. I cook and clean. I travel and enjoy my life. But people that I come across are either hurt on there way to recovery or just do not know what they want. And I have to have the whole package.because that is what I offer sex I can get anywhere! Sex parterns are a dime a dozen. But I want my woman to be my best friend, my sole mate, my confirdont as well as my lover.

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It's not that men want the jump off or buddies, it's that too many women spend so much time telling men about their accomplishments that men think that all they need is a good stiff one to ride hard and send home. A man will know what quality woman you are by paying attention to you, you don't need to hit a good man over the head with what you have and have done. The same way it's unattractive to most women to hear a man brag about the material things he has, men feel the same way. Niggas want to know what youhave so they'll either know what they can go after or what they won't need to help provide if the relationship goes anywhere. Keep your head up and listen and watch more than you talk and see and you'll get what you want without looking.

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Also remember Kelly, that niggas clothe themselves as men and try to play the role, but if you're looking and watching, he'll ALWAYS reveal himself. He can't help it! Take your time and be patient, it may seem haed, but when you really see him, you'll be ready and open to him because he'll be your friend and I do mean FRIEND first; then your lover and man/ husband when appropriate.

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Amen! on that brotha Cedric............. he will be your FRIEND first......True Friend! : )

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I gotta agree Cedric. He will be a friend first and a gentleman!

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